The Clever Pukeko

Christmas Eve at the Bach and catching up with my cousins!

2012-01-04T00:52:00.000-08:00

We spent another four glorious sun-filled days at the bach in Urenui in the lead up to Christmas - this was made even more enjoyable by the visit from Kate, Damian, Bonnie and Lewis and also Louisa, Andy and Ruairidh who were visiting from Scotland and stayed over in Urenui on their way down to Wellington for Christmas.

Andy had been up that morning and caught some fish so the date for the BBQ was set for 3pm later that day.
The morning coffee ritual was obligatory and after our caffiene injection, we were ready to hit the beach - kayak and boogie boards in tow! Fresh BBQ'd fish and chilli 'n' orange chicken with salad and fresh bread is hard to beat, not to mention the gin and tonics and beer.

We had a great laugh with all and the kids had a lovely time getting to know each other - they were zonked by all the fresh air, sun and exercise and were just about asleep at 6pm watching Tinkerbell!

Christmas morning hot chocolate at the bach - 5.30am!

Letter for Santa and the proud girls who wrote this (with Mum scribing!)

Maddy really got to grips with the black sand - I think she'd make a good seal pup!

Some of the Johnston lassies

A group photo - self-timer!

A smile from Bonnie with her Mummy!

The kids at the end of the day parked in front of Tinkerbell!

Madeleine turns 5 - celebrations at Citykids

2012-01-04T00:06:00.000-08:00

Madeleine had her last day at Citykids on Friday 16th December - it was a momentous occasion and it was honoured in the traditional Citykids way with a look at her profile book dating from when she was three up until present day (spot the Fairy Godmother!) and then donning the 'Korowai' a maori cloak worn on special occasions such as weddings or in this case - birthday celebrations. There was the traditional song to end the celebrations and prepare for hand-washing before cake (four little monkeys jumping on the mat...one fell off and then there were...etc). And of course cake to finish off!

Madeleine is best friends with the little girl with black hair and princess tiara - Nikki - who lives just down the road from us but who doesn't turn 5 until August this year but will be joining Maddy at Ngaio school.

Our wonderful Fairy Godmother!

2011-12-11T00:19:00.000-08:00

Dear Fairy Godmother,

Thank you so much for making Madeleine's 5th Birthday such a wonderful day - you brought sunshine, laughter, fairy dust, amazing pink glasses, love, fun and so much joy to our day!

Please come again soon!

lots of love Beth, Nick, Molly and Madeleine (almost 5!)
xxxxxxxxx

Holiday Snaps - Botannics and Staglands Park

2011-01-15T01:01:00.000-08:00

Madeleine turns four! Xmas Presents from Santa!
Birthday hugs from Molly

We made it - first long walk for the girls and they just managed it!

Today we visited Staglands where the girls got to pet lots of animals and reminded Nick what would happen if he wasn't very well behaved!

Last weekend, we took Dad for a visit to the Wairapa where we stopped at the beach at Lake Ferry and enjoyed some fish and chips and beer. Dad got melancholic about the endless of supply of driftwood and wondered how he could transport this back to Shetland.

Dad taking shelter from the wind!

Molly at the Botannic Gardens

Maddy with chickenpox!

Molly loses her second tooth - the biggest gap.

"Be my Baby"

2011-01-03T22:54:00.000-08:00

For Christmas 2010, Murray and Trish bought this singing Bee for Molly - it was a winner and Molly accompanies Bee beautifully!

2010-10-29T01:24:00.000-07:00

An early taste of summer........

We took a trip up the west coast to Mum and Neil's bach at Urenui for a week in early October. The weather gods were smiling on us and we got wall to wall sunshine.

Molly cuddling up to her little sister after a day on the beach. Perfect time to grab a cuddle with Maddy as the opening credits for Finding Nemo run.

Sunscreen was in short supply so the girls used black sand instead. Harder to rub in than your average SPF50.

The West coast is a bit rough at times and some big old twigs get thrown onto the beach. This one gave us some relief from the sun.

That white on black really stands out don't it.

Molly loved finding crabs. She would pick them up and let them run over her hands. Unfortunately a crab found Maddy before she found it. She screamed and leap up onto Beth's shoulders. Now she won't walk on the sand. Molly used this as leverage when sibling battles kicked off. Just a mention of a crab set Maddy into a spin and huff.

Maddy a bit tense here.....watch out.

We stumbled onto a shop selling exclusively Fairy outfit (no wonder we are in a recession). They even had an 'event' room called Pixietopia and adult sized fairy costumes. Couldn't help but think of you mum :-).

Needless to say we couldn't get the girls out of these get-ups once they were on. Fortunately for us Fairy outfits are appropriate for every occassion when you are 3 and 6.

Band shot.

The GAP where Molly's tooth used to be and chocolate dessert.

We also got the kids up onto some horses on the trip up. Maddy had her first shot at it. Loved it.

I also came out of my cocoon. No surprises I was a beautiful butterfly.

We had this outfit for the home show (we are a Sensitive choice partner and their symbol is a blue butterfly). We also had a dust mite but I figured that was a bit scary for Maddy's day care which is where I went dressed as you see me now. Kids loved it. Parents thought I was a weirdo. I'm just misunderstood.

HELLO!!!!

Just another day in Paradise!

2010-07-18T02:23:00.000-07:00

Another sunny weekend down on the Queen's Wharf, warnings of slippery walkways were unheeded as we strolled in the sunshine, stopping for great views, ice-creams and photos!

Happy Birthday Grandma (Mum)!

2010-07-17T18:09:00.000-07:00

The spaghetti champs

2010-07-17T17:56:00.000-07:00

Baking muffins with Granny Viv

2010-06-25T13:24:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday Granny Viv!

2010-02-06T23:34:00.000-08:00

Christmas Holidays at the Beach

2010-01-09T22:16:00.000-08:00

Christmas was very relaxing. We headed up to Urenui (small beachside town) which is about 35 mins from New Plymouth on the west coast, four days before Christmas. We stayed in Viv and Neil's 'bach' by the sea which is situated on a camping holiday site. It is perfectly situated for an easy stroll to the beach and local shop and if you're a keen golfer - it's also ideal!

We arrived just in time to beat the mad rush of Christmas holidaymakers and spent four very quiet and relaxing days soaking up the hot sunshine with the kids on the beach. On Christmas eve, we packed up and headed down to Hawera for Christmas brunch with Viv and Neil and family and then onto Murray and Trish for lunch. We spent a lovely day catching up with all the families and stayed over in Hawera that night and then instead of returning to windy Wellington, we decided to return to Urenui for a bit more R&R!

The weather wasn't as good the second week but that didn't matter as the girls were more than happy to occupy themselves either covering each other in black sand at the beach, playing at the local park, in our backyard beside the bach or eating ice-creams at the cafe with us. We can't wait to do that again.

Madeleine and Lauchlan (best of friends and conspirators!)

Lauchlan is our step-nephew.

The Grandchildren: Madeleine; Lauchlan; Reece; Molly; Caccia and Eli.

Water pistol fight!

Viv comes under attack from all directions.

Madeleine stops for some light refreshment!

Viv gets her own back!

Molly explains a thing or two to Peggy (just 90 years of age!)

Madeleine's 3rd Birthday.

Pretending to be shy.

Viv's cake (I just put on the decorations!)

Nick on the kayak at Urenui, New Plymouth.

Beth and Madeleine.

Beth and Molly.

Urenui Beach.

Pohutakawa (NZ's Xmas tree).

Madeleine's birthday present - 'Dora' Scooter!

Molly and Maddy get new nighties just in time for the hot Summer weather!

Molly sings 'Somewhere over the rainbow' from inside a bucket in a kayak - wonder if that's ever been done before?

Nectarine and nudies!

Family and Friends Reunion

2010-01-04T23:21:00.000-08:00

It was great to return to Scotland for many reasons: catching up with my siblings, hanging out with Dad, spending time with Mum, visiting old friends and of course meeting my niece, Georgia, for the first time.
I don't think I've had that much time to myself (two weeks!) since before Molly was born! I thought it would take me a while to switch off from my parental duties but no, only 24 hours after leaving the house and arriving in Scotland, it all came flooding back to me.

I had a great evening with my oldest friend from school, Esther, her husband (Ally) and their little girl (Eva) catching up, albeit in a rather delirious state. The next day I met up with Gudrun and we rented a wee studio in Portobello so we could have some quality sister time together. It was great to see my wee sister again. We also met up in a local cafe in Portobello with my aunt and cousins from Penicuik and shortly after, Jamie arrived so we all had a pub lunch next door!

I had one night with Anders - a dear friend from Edinburgh who Nick met through his days at the RBS in Edinburgh and who is now a very close friend - who made a delicious risotto and made sure my wine glass was never empty. Then it was onto Shetland to see Dad and Mum. Dad and I had a lovely time visiting some of Dad's friends and meeting up with some new contacts, dining out, reading his new book(!) and drinking lots of good coffee, as well as good wine, beer, etc. It was really good to see Mum and just spend time with her.

On my return leg to the mainland, I spent a night with Sorley in a wee cottage at Craigievar Castle and we had a lovely meal with Wendy and Ben. The next day, Sorley and I drove down to Jamie and Helen's house in the Trossachs, just next to Loch Ard - stunning scenery and a spectacular setting. Meeting Georgia for the first time was very special and we all had a lovely evening together. Gudrun came up trumps with a yummy 'Nigella Lawson' chocolate cake for Jamie's birthday and a lot of time was spent coo-ing over our adorable niece. Great to see the family cradle in action again!

Gudrun and I then spent one more day together in Edinburgh, whizzing around the shops in an effort to grab some last minute pressies before Xmas and before we both returned overseas. After a teary farewell to Gudrun, I caught a train up to Fife and stayed with Sue and James and their wee boys (Reuben and Dylan). Sue had arranged for my other friends: Gill and Adam, Rosie and Joady, Sheena, Lindy and most of their respective children to visit too so it was very busy and jovial for a couple of hours until Dads left with the kids and we had a really nice girly time with a few bottles of wine and a curry!

It was back to Edinburgh the next day for breakfast with Ally, Esther and Eva (thank you Ally!) at one of their favourite local cafes in Stockbridge and then onto the plane back to New Zealand. Thank you all of you for your generous hospitality and warmth - it was great to see you all and I look forward to doing it all again in July with the rest of the family next time!

Molly is the face of Blind Week 2009

2009-10-27T02:30:00.000-07:00

It's Blind Week in New Zealand and as many of you know, Molly was chosen as the 'face' of Blind Week. Her wee face has adorned leaflets, posters, website and now the newspapers. Each day this week, there is a photo of Molly in The NZ Herald and Wellington's paper (The Dominion Post) are coming to interview Molly and I at her school on Friday morning. Molly, of course, is taking all the media attention in her stride!

Tomorrow, Molly is going to the local Visual Resource Centre to meet up with other visually-impaired kids and their teacher aides and generally have a bit of fun. On Thursday, Molly (along with her class and the other 500 pupils in her school) are going to make eye patches and decorate them and spend some time wearing them around school to see what it's like to be in Molly's shoes. On Friday, the local Guide Dog Trainer is coming along to give a talk to Molly's class and will be bringing her guide dog, Sky, to meet the kids. The donation buckets will be rattling around the classrooms!

Never leave your shaving foam lying around

2009-10-27T00:39:00.000-07:00

So some random updates on life over here in the perpetual winter

My Ladies up at Viv and Neil's. We zapped up there for a few days over the school holidays. Mum and Neil were in Auckland for a chunk of it so we had the run of the place. The weather was terrible but we snugged up inside and picked a couple of decent vintages out of the cellar. A few single malts were had as there were some almost finished bottles taking up valuable space in the liquor cabinet.

Shaving foam left open in bathroom =

It's like a 70's Gene Simmon's snap with a fan.

This is what happens if you eat too much fish.

Pizza oven in Featherston. A Friend of mine (Nick) from IT days has a place in Featherston (Wairarapa). We shot over for a Sunday and it was magic. We cooked Pizzas in this oven.

And played cricket on their lawn.

That is the signal for a 'no ball'. Maddy - Umpire / Molly - Medium fast right arm over.

Lots of love from all of us standing upside down.

Nick

Otari-Wilton's Bush - Native Botanic Garden and Forest Reserve

2009-08-24T17:51:00.000-07:00

We took the girls to this lovely nature reserve, about ten mins drive from our house, and we took the short 15 minute nature trail which actually took us around half an hour to walk! It was wonderful to have a bush walk and be surrounded by beautiful old trees (400 - 800 years old!) and to hear all the native birds.

This reserve is the only botanic garden in New Zealand dedicated solely to native plants and consists of 100 hectares of native forest and five hectares of plant collections. Originally, Maori used the forest for hunting hence the name 'Otari' which means 'Place of Snares'. Following European colonisation, some of the large trees were removed for timber and others were burnt off for farmland. One of the early landowners, Job Wilton, preserved seven hectares (17 acres) of the original forest and fenced it off. This became known as Wilton's Bush.

There are many different types of trails and tracks to take depending on your time limit and level of interest. I will definitely be returning without the kids to explore some more!

Nick and Molly on the Nature Trail

Peeking through the pseudo-trunk of the Northern Rata:

Originally an epiphyte, this tree began its life high up on the

branches of another tree and then sent roots down to the ground which then fused

to create a pseudo-trunk, killing off the host tree. The gap in the trunk is a reminder of where the host tree once grew!

New Zealand Tree Fern - Punga Tree

400-year-old Rimu with Rata (epiphyte)
You can see the Rata roots strangling its host and making their way
towards the ground.

The cheesiest grin with Forget-me-nots!

Puff the Magic Dragon...

2009-08-20T00:52:00.000-07:00

Disco Diva and Trikes

2009-08-02T00:54:00.000-07:00

I know, it's been a while since we last posted but hey we did move house and school and...

Finally found a few essential camera items and have managed to take a few snapshots over the last few days:

Molly had her first school disco on Friday night and the theme was 'Superheros' so Molly was of course - Super Molly - found some material to make an 'M' for her princess dress and her little nurses' cape was perfect for a Superhero. The disco ran from 6pm until 7.15pm when the older kids took over! Molly was so excited about the disco and I was a little worried that it might be too much for her so late in the day but no; she's definitely cut out for parties, a real disco diva, I wonder where she gets that from? Once she got over her fear of the loud music and all the people, she bopped away to YMCA and 'Move it' and others and clearly did not want the party to end. It was quite hard to get her to sleep when we got home as she kept singing the whole evening!

We took a drive the other day to a peaceful beach called 'Makara Beach', about 3o mins drive from here, tucked over the hills, hidden from Wellington. At least we thought it would be quiet but it seemed that other Wellingtonians had the same idea that day. Spot the local children going for the plunge!

This morning we took the girls and their trikes down to Oriental Parade, Wellington's posh waterfront, had coffee, chased the gulls and played in the park all the while trying to avoid any collisions with other pedestrians and cyclists! Molly has a new trike and Madeleine has Molly's old trike; Molly is still learning how to steer and pedal.

2009-06-11T04:09:00.000-07:00

Monday, Tuesday at Pukerua Bay.

It is late but I wanted to post these photos. The NZ coast can be a beautiful place with sunnies on but make sure you bring a coat.....

Nick

Hail Storm front
The maw of the beast

Sunshine

The inviting coast

The photographer and the shy Kapiti Island (it is visible today)

Cross-country

2009-06-01T00:29:00.000-07:00

Molly enters her first cross-country race at Pukerua Bay School and runs further than she has ever run in her whole life! Well done Molly!

Waiting for the cross-country race to start

The first leg and the last leg!

Go Molly!!!!

Keep going Molly!

Almost there!

High Fives with Mum

Exhausted Molly lies down under her jumper and hides from her friends

Chillin' to Shoormal on new MP3 player from Grandpa

Bunks, Bouncing and Slippers

2009-05-31T01:21:00.000-07:00

So I wrote this a few weeks ago bit it seems a shame not to post it.

Bunks

We brought some bunks the other weekend as we thought we would try to maximise our available space in our wee house. Apart from that it gets Maddy out of her cot and gives Molly an adventure each night scaling up the ladder to the top bunk. She loves being able to touch the ceiling.

So we assembled the bunks in the room they were in to kick off. We only had one mattress so we got Molly into the swing of things on the bottom bunk. Teddy’s up top. This weekend the cot got taken down and a couple of new mattresses were purchased and the girls got set up in the office. Initial concerns about how Molly might cope with the ladder were misplaced when she clambered down in the dark three times on the first night to come and see us in the living room.

A snap of the wee mountaineers.

Bouncing

The winter has arrived. There was some serious hail in the city on Wednesday last week. I was heading to Christchurch for some training but our plane was struck by lightening when it landed to pick us up. I’m happy for them to give it a good once over when that happens rather than just jumping on board and taking our chances. Some free breakfast vouchers were great. A generous helping of scrabbled eggs and mojo coffee.

Winter has also meant some indoor time for us and the weans. We broke out an old mattress for the girls to jump on in the living room. We have some footage of the gymnasts leaping about to some happy tunes (can you identify them – answers on a postcard).

Note: Turn your PC sideways for this clip.

Slippers

Mothers Day was on Sunday this week. I brought it forward a day to Saturday as we had our office party (we turned 1) on Saturday night. Beth headed out for the day and me and the girls made cards (and a mess). The excitement was too much for Maddy and while standing on a chair in her socks she lunged for a crayon, slipped, fell, smacked her chin on the table on the way past and bit deep into her bottom lip. A moment of silence then a Banshee wail. There was no shortage of blood mixed in with dribble and sobs. We got some ice on it and put on some ‘Cinderella’. Job done. Maddy has the makings of a TV junkie. Anyway to stop the slipping we went and got Maddy some slippers (can anyone explain that oxymoron please – slippers / slipping).

She has some flashing slippers. When she stomps (and she can stomp) they flash. It is quite distracting for her when she is doing a wee. Stomping and wee-ing is a skill.
Nick

A few random shots from April 2009

2009-05-25T01:06:00.000-07:00

Molly blows out the candles on her birthday cake

2009-04-02T23:18:00.000-07:00

Molly's 5th Birthday

2009-03-30T23:15:00.001-07:00

Molly turned five on 23rd March, 2009 and to mark this very special event, we held a big fairy party (by special request) in the local Scout hall in Pukerua Bay. Molly invited around 15 little fairies and some brought their siblings so there were around 20 children in all and a few grown-ups too.

As Molly is very into dressing-up right now and loves pretending to be a fairy or a princess, we thought it would be very special if she had a visit from a real fairy, amazingly they do exist and Fairy Trina put in a surprise appearance at Molly's party and stole the show. She was a very busy fairy; telling stories, making wishes, painting fairy faces, organising pass the parcel and musical statue, as well as all her other fairy duties. The kids loved her and most importantly, it was a very special day to remember for Molly.

Fairy Molly

Fairy Trina with Molly

Fairy Eli

Fairy Mummy and Fairy Madeleine

Fairy Godmother

Fairies having tea (no, they weren't always this quiet!)

Pass the parcel

Molly hands out stickers on her last day at Kindy

The Fairy Birthday Cake (made by Fairy Godmother Viv!)

Inspiring Speech

2009-03-30T00:18:00.000-07:00

After coming home from dropping Molly at school today, I felt confused: a mixture of things but the main reason was a nagging feeling that something isn't quite right about school. I don't have a connection with either the governing of the school or Molly's new entrants' teacher (who I'm sure is a lovely person) but neither fills me with confidence. Anyway, I averted my thoughts to other things and took off to the park with Madeleine for the morning but these thoughts kept returning and, after picking Molly up from school and crossing paths with the teacher, then having a conversation with Molly's Vision Specialist Teacher, I came home needing to find some answers.

Some things are just meant to happen and whilst I was reading an email from another Vision Specialist Teacher, I found an interesting-looking link on her email and decided to see where it took me. I browsed awhile and then the title 'Creativity' caught my eye and I clicked on this video. Suddenly, I felt like I had found an answer, or at least, felt supported for the concerns that had been with me all day. I also felt a connection and a realisation that my daughter's education could be something else altogther.

Now I'm left wondering what I'm going to do about it.

Beet soup and beach modelling

2009-03-15T02:06:00.000-07:00

OK...we had a brief...put on the handmade woollies and strut our stuff on the beach...or something like that. Actually, Gudrun made two beautiful hand-knitted items for both me and Nick and this is just proof that we got them, love them and wear them. I received mine last year (in time for winter) and Nick's arrived just last week. Today was the perfect weather for a modelling shoot so we headed down to our local beach and got strutting. I think we could both do with some lessons in the art of photography, probably modelling too, but hey, we had fun.

With the onset of winter here; longer nights, cooler days and also, just being a lazy Sunday, it was the perfect opportunity to try out Gudrun's Beet Soup which is a winner in our household...well most of us...Madeleine preferred the homemade bread but she didn't even try the soup so we're working on converting her to the majority vote by the end of the winter.

Beet Soup, homemade fresh bread and hummus (leek flower!)

Nick showing off his his new vest made by Gudrun

Beth and Molly lapping up the sunshine

Beth modelling jumper designed by Gudrun also!

Swings

2009-02-19T00:00:00.000-08:00

Xmas 08

2009-02-05T00:16:00.001-08:00

Christmas day in Pukerua Bay, New Zealand and Grandpa was there to share it with us!

Paddington Bear made it safe and sound from the other side of the world and there were two of them!

I want to pull this cracker!

No Daddy, I don't want to!

Grandpa unveils the new tramp and keen gymnast!

Molly shows off her gorgeous new silk fairy costume from Gudrun

Superheros practise some old and some new routines!

Molly's new (second-hand) doll's house from Santa

Maddy finds the box far more interesting.

The girls sharing a rare quiet moment together.
Dining out at the Fisherman's Table (as requested by Molly)

Maddy and Molly enjoy 'traffic lights' (coloured juice)

Madeleine's 2nd Birthday

2009-01-19T23:00:00.000-08:00

First birthday present on her second birthday.

Ohhhh...pizza...mmm!

Hmm...think it needs a little something?

Duplo is a hit!

Maddy reading her new Charlie and Lola book from Gudrun and Jamie.

Teaching Grandpa a thing or two.

More cake?

Our lovely friends who have departed overseas to Australia but kindly gave us their cat!

Sara, Olive and Felix (Stu not present).

Queen Elizabeth Park

2009-01-19T22:44:00.000-08:00

Madeleine and Molly decide Grandpa needs a little cooling down so the paddling pool water is put to good use. Grandpa is well versed in the 'oooohhhs' and 'aaahhhhs'!

A couple of shots taken on our walk along the sand dunes in Queen Elizabeth Park, about ten minutes drive from Pukerua Bay.

Cosmo is showered with gifts

2009-01-18T23:53:00.000-08:00

Madeleine welcomes Cosmo (our new cat) into the Armstrong household, holding a traditional cat shower as a display of her affection. Cosmo was given to us by some lovely friends who have moved to Australia (alas!) for a couple of years. She has grown up with two children who are similar ages to Molly and Madeleine so Cosmo is no stranger (thankfully!) to toddler behaviours and habits. She is extremely patient and highly tolerant of the kids.

The kids are learning (with lots and lots of prompting and reminding from parents) how to handle and care for Cosmo. Just like my friends told us: she is very relaxed, totally undemanding, extremely gentle and affectionate. Madeleine is particularly smitten with Cosmo and even joins her for tea: having cat biscuits when no-one's looking! We did think that Molly might be allergic to cats after discovering a persistent rash on her body not long after we got Cosmo, but thankfully it has disappeared and she doesn't have any other symptoms so Cosmo is definitely here to stay with us. Watch this space for lots more photos of Cosmo and family.

Ladies and the Tramp

2009-01-06T00:01:00.000-08:00

A present from Granny Viv for Xmas 2008.
Opening:
As the scene begins our leading lady is performing the exceptionally difficult 'Jumping and exclaiming' discipline. This piece was especially commissioned for this occasion. As the piece reaches it's exciting climax a wee comedian rolls in, stealing the show and provides the punctuation (listen carefully folks).

That's my girls. They asked for you at breakfast this morning Grandpa.

Maddy the Bogan & Molly the daredevil

2008-12-14T00:19:00.000-08:00

Now this is something to warm the heart of Bernie Eccelstone. It is all about gravity and mass folks...

Molly has started jumping off things. We started on the chair in her room and have moved onto bigger things. Here is where it all began.

later. Merry xmas.

2008-12-13T23:47:00.000-08:00

It was our third visit to the annual Foundation of the Blind Xmas party and like each year before, this was also a little different. Up until now, Madeleine has been pretty immobile, first year spent snuggled up inside mummy's tummy and last year, pretty much spent snuggled up on mummy's lap, this year however Madeleine was determined to make up for lost time. It was a race to see who could finish the chips and ice-cream first and then came the visit Molly had been waiting for...Father Christmas...Molly was still a little scared to receive her gift but once she got it in her hands there was no stopping her, or Madeleine for that matter!

Teas for Two (two of - it is Sunday after all)

2008-11-01T11:48:00.000-07:00

It is a funday sunday. Betty's morning to snuggle back down in the scratcher. Get a couple of pages of her book under the belt or just enjoy the steaming mugs of Dilmah that are being ferried to her alongside some toasted homemade Light Granary Bread.

I discovered bread recipes in the back of our Gaia's Kitchen cookbook that I retrieved from our shelf with trepidation. The recipes are wonderful but are not Ansley Harriot's 'Meals in Minutes' so you gotta have your game face on. The 'light granary bread' is a nice and simple number that is easy on the knead so it is in. I'm a self confessed bread addict since staying with mon épouse in Abertville. I'm picking that it is where I developed my overly affectionate feelings for strong black coffee. France has some explaining to do when I have a self audit (so does Scotland i.e. Single Malts, hard orange cheese). I am going to tackle croissants today (or crow-sants as we say down here in our culture corner of the planet). Can't be too difficult flour+butter+bakers attitude.

Some random stuff.

David - I used the Vader You tube vid for one of my morning meetings. Showed the guys how important it is to take control of situations as even canteen staff can steal your mojo. You'll need a tray is being banded around the office.

Star Wars affectionardos of the 18+ age group (not because of the visuals but the dialogue is too advanced for Sagie boy etc) should take a gander at 'The Vader Chronicles' on You Tube. James Earl Jones has had his voice from other roles hijacked and dubbed over scenes from the initial trilogy. Grinworthy. Not a full blown belly laugh like the Eddie Izard lego flick.

Jimbo - After playing Belle and Sebastian's 'Boy with the Arab strap' off and on for the last 4 weeks I caught Molly singing the words this morning 'I am a lazy git she is as pure as the cold driven snow'. She has added that to her knowledge of the White Stripes lyrics. I am trying to get her to learn the words to 'Come together' while trying to scrub 'Dancing Queen'. Being a father is an endless task.

G - Nice Hat, photies. You inspired us too as we loaded up our SLR last weekend with the old style film and took a few snaps. Makes me nervous with file as I can't just delete it once I have pulled the trigger if I have had a Barry Crocker.

Maddie is adding words to her limited vocab everyday. Forgot how exciting it is. Told me she wanted some skippy cornflakes this morning. It is like the BINGO song except instead of B I N G O it is like Blah Blah Blah Cat Blah and BINGO was his name oh.

Watched the All Blacks last night play Oz in Hong Kong. Turned it off half time and went to bed as I was bored. I felt I had to share that. I am puzzled. Wasn't even excited that they were playing. Scotland next week though and I can't help but watch and be a bit torn.

Ok coffee time.

Be well you folk. 2010 seems sooooo long away.

Testing our video uploading skills

2008-10-29T00:26:00.000-07:00

OK, not sure exactly what is going on here. Kids are dancing and I think both have their own little routine going on. I think Madeleine may need a few more rehearsals before she picks up the routine. Glad to see I have sussed out how to upload videos now...I know it's taken me some time.

Homai trip in Auckland

2008-10-19T23:05:00.000-07:00

Molly and I just returned from a very successful trip up to Homai School in Auckland where she and I met lots of really interesting therapists and Molly was put through the grill once again. I should add that it wasn't too stressful for Molly, who actually thoroughly enjoyed the three days of one-on-one attention. Molly was out to impress and that's exactly what she did. The last visit up to Homai was two years ago so the therapists were amazed at how much progress Molly had made, especially how comfortable she now is in her body and the speech therapist said she had the language skills of a six and a half year-old! We are obviously very proud parents and just delighted to see her reaching her goals. Go Molly!

Just a few photos for now as one of the therapists was taking lots of photos while we were there and will be sending us some soon. Molly will soon have her very own blog which is currently being created by her Visual Resource Teacher as part of a wider project that she is involved in with the Foundation of the Blind.

Waiting for the shuttle to take us to the airport

Our wee twin room at Homai - dinosaur and dog unpacked!

Playing with a musical toy in the Technology room

Some downtime with a balloon - spot the mermaid!

Waiting patiently for our plane in Auckland

Still waiting for our plane...which was two hours late!

Cowboys, shenanigans and muddy puddles

2008-09-23T01:33:00.000-07:00

OK, here are some more recent shots of the girls and a few others from our recent weekend up in Taranaki (spot Dapper Dan!), this is Nick's get-up for a forthcoming stag night in November.

Two girls wearing two recent additions to their dressing-up box - a very pretty gift from Lorraine Johnson (a friend of Neil and Viv's) - thank you Lorraine!

Milkshake stop at the 'Laughing Fox' cafe in Foxton - I sure was laughing when I saw the size of the shake! Dad, you might remember us taking you there on our way up to Taranaki when you last visited?

Somebody else had more serious things on her mind! Molly was definitely winning the race.
Girls playing quietly (!) on Granny Viv's piano

Dapper Dan and side-kick cowboy Murray

The tearaways!

Awww...sisterly love!

...and muddy puddles

2008-09-05T01:20:00.000-07:00

Just realised how ridiculously long it's been since our last post so just wanted to quickly add a few shots for now to remind you that we're still here and thinking of you all. Keep checking our blog as it will be updated more regularly from now on!

We recently visited a stables about 10 mins drive from us in a beautiful scenic park where Molly took her first riding lesson! Very relaxed but you wouldn't think it from Molly's posture, she took it all very seriously and loved every minute of it. She wasn't a bit nervous and didn't really want to get off after the lesson so we will be going back as much as possible. 'Bonny' and Molly are now very good friends.

and...little miss mischief...always ready for a party!

Birthdays, blueberries and shenanigans

2008-03-29T19:11:00.000-07:00

To celebrate Molly's fourth birthday this year, we decided to do something a little different and opted for a day at the 'Organic Blueberry Farm' just over the hill.

The blueberry farm has a lot going for it: blueberries of course; courses in making homemade preserves; artwork for sale; a swimming hole; fantastic desserts and a Mexican cafe! The latter had us convinced this was the place for a spot of birthday lunch.

The cafe is owned and run by a couple, a native American woman and her husband, a Mexican Communications Architect who works in the cafe with his mother at the weekends making authentic mexican food. His mother, Rosita travels from Mexico each year to open her cafe to the public for a limited number of hours over the weekend. The family also employ a sherpa family from Nepal to help them in the gardens.

It took some finding, but we found it the end, over the hill, down a dirt track, just off the windiest road in NZ. Well worth the find. We arranged to meet Jamie and Helen there for some coffee and blueberry muffins just for starters. We were greeted by a buxom flame-haired woman with a big warm smile and lots of chat. She gave us the run-down: take a basket and pick as many blueberries as we felt like, then get them weighed and pay for them at the desk. Simple! We were prepared: Molly had made a beautiful Easter basket at kindergarten just for the occasion, so we set off down another track to the blueberry bushes and got picking. Most of the picked berries made it to the basket but some were unlucky and made it straight into the mouths of small people. Jamie and Helen joined us just as we were starting to get laden down with our basket. Back up the cafe for the coffee and muffins and then it was time for the Easter Egg hunt! Jamie and I set off back down the track with Molly and waited at the gate with all the other youngsters and not so young. The flame-haired woman had sorted the kids out and allowed them through the gate in order of age, youngest first, etc. Jamie got ahead of the game and managed to spot some eggs for Molly before anyone else laid claim to them. Of course the interest started to wear off once Molly worked out what was inside the colourful wrapping and most of the hunt was spent trying to chew the hard chocolate eggs!

Back to the cafe for some homemade tostadas and beans and rice - delicious! Despite the wet weather, we all had a great time. Laden down with blueberries and chocolate, we made our way home on the windy road with both kids fast asleep before we got home.

Fairy dress - present from Granny (Viv)

Girls on the trampoline

Molly's new swing set

Molly waiting for her swimming lesson with Granny and Madeleine

Donna tells Molly to 'kick, kick, kick!'

Molly opening presents on her fourth birthday

Look what I've got! Beautiful fairy wings made by Gudrun!

'Dora the Explorer' birthday cake

Singing Happy Birthday

Look what I found in the garden Mum!

sun, sea, sheep and bikes...

2008-03-16T02:00:00.000-07:00

I thought it would be nice to show you some of the local scenery in our bay; a few shots taken on a recent walk down to our beach; some random shots of the kids and some pics taken today of Molly taking part in a 'wheelathon' at the local school. This was a fundraising event for the kindergarten and Nick (who is on the committee) was MC for the day, hence the loudspeaker! Most of the kids decorated their bikes and even dressed up for the event (wish I had known!). There was plenty of cake and coffee and a sausage sizzle to keep everyone going. Weather was great and the kids had a blast - not sure yet how much was raised but it was well attended. Molly was riding a 'runner' bike, i.e. without stabilisers, which apparently is very good for mobility and balance, although she's yet to be convinced!

Paua shell

Toi Toi (NZ native plant)

Art Deco on the beach

Pukerua Beach

A quiet spot for reflection and catching your breath!

The windy path down to the beach

Looking across to Kapiti Island

Pukerua Beach Road

The 'Wheelathon' at the local school in Pukerua Bay

Molly on her 'runner' bike (Note: no stabilisers)

Molly receiving her prize from Kindy teacher (Trish)

(Note: Nick with loudspeaker)

Molly and Madeleine getting re-fuelled

In bed with 'Sheepy'

and getting close!

Madeleine achieving her first climb!

The lovely Kate and Damian with baby Lewis and Madeleine

Some fruits of our labour in the garden

A mixed bag!

2008-02-02T23:25:00.000-08:00

It's been some time since we last updated our blog and although we have all been busy; we haven't been keeping a record of our exploits on camera so here are a few random shots for you, all taken over the last couple of weeks.

The Xmas holidays are now officially over for the New Zealanders and everyone is slowly getting reacquainted with routines: kindergarten, school, work, etc. We can't complain really as it's been a fantastic Summer: plenty of sunshine; days spent lazing around on the beach; having BBQs and sipping wine on the deckchairs until late into the balmy evenings. Apparently it's been the best Summer since 1990 and it's set to continue right through till April! If you're planning a getaway somewhere warm, you'll be guaranteed some sunshine with us! I know it's a bit far for some of you but hey, the offer is out there OK, so just let us know when you're coming.

To update you on recent events: Nick and I spent a very romantic night away in the Wairarapa, which is about one hour's drive from here on the east coast. We took in some wine tasting en route and a spot of lunch in a quaint little town called Martinborough. A tour around the 'antique' shops (not very antique!) in Greytown and then we settled into our little cottage for the afternoon. We had a lovely dinner out that night and then brunch the next day at the local boulangerie (french too!) and then it was back to normality again around 11am! Jamie and Helen (Graeme's help too!) looked after Molly and Madeleine and proved themselves more than capable of babysitting duties! It is something that we want to do again very soon and Jamie and Helen have offered up their services so no doubt we will be calling on them in the not too distant future!

Nick was invited to a wedding (I was too but it was too awkward with the girls) and took off with our good friend, Iain Hosie, for a few days. As you would expect, they packed all the CDs they needed and made sure the surfboard was tied securely to the roof but in true boy fashion, they forgot their wedding outfits! However, not to worry as it was a beach wedding so they got away with shorts and flip-flops! A great time was had by all.

While Nick was gone, Vivien (Nick's mum) and my niece (Caccia) came to my rescue and helped me entertain the girls for a few days. As you can see from the photos, the girls had a fantastic time and we were sorry to see them leave. We have asked Caccia to come back during the next school holidays! It was fun to have a girly time together.

We have just returned today from visiting family in Taranaki and attending Jo and Daryl's wedding. Jo is Nick's step-sister from his Mum's side of the family. Jo was getting married to New Zealand's motorcross 500cc champion - Daryl Hurley. Of course, Daryl turned up for the wedding in true style, with his groomsmen aboard their motorcycles! Jo looked stunning and particularly radiant as she's expecting her first child in May! Molly was given the extra special task of delivering a silk slipper to the bride and after much rehearsal, she did a sterling job and made us all proud and much relieved!

Not sure about this dinner tonight mum!

Madeleine and Caccia

Testing out Daddy's sleeping bag before his trip

Definitely comfortable!

Michael reads to Molly and Madeleine

Having fun in the dinghy

Birthday, Xmas, New Year, Birthday

2008-01-02T00:28:00.000-08:00

The Armstrong’s dragging the chain again. Now we have the last major event out of the way for the Xmas holidays we can update you all on the rollercoaster ride that was.

As Maria (Julie Andrew’s) said ‘let’s start at the very beginning…’

We were demob happy on the 21st. I snuck out of the office early while the boss was dishing out the Larry Lindauer (New Zealand Fizz) and made the 3.20 train. Beth packed the girls full of food and I packed the car full of stuff. Amazingly there was no traffic heading north of Wellington (Saturday saw an hour delay) and we made good time to Hawera. Molly crashed out after 20 minutes of the trip. Maddie kept us company until 10pm wee lamb. She was very cherry except when Beth and I were eating and she was not.

The schedule of events was….
Stay at Dad’s 21st – 24th. Stay at Mum’s 25th – 27th. The Management reserved the right to change the schedule without notice.

So we chilled out with Dad on the 22nd and did not very much except eat. We had a nice lasagne over a bottle of Pinot Gris sitting out in Dad’s courtyard for lunch while the girls slept. A very nice start to the festivities. Not much else happened after this as you can imagine. Maddie started to mucsle in on Molly's territory (Grandad). Fret not the girls were bathed and fed as per usual.

The 23rd was Maddie’s birthday. Dad and Trish got her what every Kiwi one year old needs to have with the burgeoning summer at their doorstep. An all in one swim/sun suit. She was quickly in her birthday suit and into this garb to check the fit. Nicely skin tight. She was a little unsure about it as you can see. She warmed to it soon enough during the first outing as you will see in the photos later.

We then went to Mum’s for cake and bubbles (again at lunch) and a spot of theft. Maddie decided that the usual lunch was not adequate considering it was her birthday and after conspiring with Dad she went for the berry mother load. Peggy (Neil’s Mum) was none the wiser. It had to be cut down into Maddie size pieces for quick disposal. Maddie also got a duck as a gift that Molly loves. It quacks nursery rhymes. Magic.

Maddy: That strawberry is ripe for the taking.

Nick: You'll have to be quick. Jo is almost finished telling Peg about the shade of nail polish she has picked out for her wedding day.

Huey, Dewey and Louie...

After the cake was eaten and the kids wound down we headed across to Simon Rangiwahia’s for a get together. Simon is the older brother of Matthew who spoke at our wedding. A good number of my contemporaries from university had come back to Hawera for Xmas. It was an opportunity too good to be missed. Much chat, a boogie etc. Beth was going strong until 1.30am. Dad came to collect her and I headed back into the fray…..

Then it was Christmas (if only – the 24th was a long old day I can tell you).

So Christmas, we had moved into Mum’s and Vaughan had arrived with his Family the night before. The Kiddo’s surprised us all and slept until after 7am. Clearly we hadn’t impressed upon them the importance of the day – perhaps something to do with the 24th?

Anyhow Molly and Maddie ripped into their Santa stockings. Ballet pumps were fitted, books were read, mini Frisbees were thrown and chocolate was consumed all before 8am.

We had breakfast at Mum’s (Fizz before lunch this time – thank goodness this Christmas happens once a year). Beth made some Muesli, Vaughan made pancakes, Mum cooked Bacon and Kranskeys (like polish sausages). There were sweets and fruit and just plain toast if you fancied it.

Coffee, coffee and more coffee.

Then to Dad’s.

Molly crashed out and Maddie went down for a nap. Suddenly we had an hour to eat (again), drink (again) and socialise. Very nice. Trish had her brood and their families over so we were vastly out numbered however we gave as good as we got what! Jolly good show.

The girls woke up and we had some screaming about time which was a treat. Maddie was just breaking into a crawl. A crowd slowly gathered. She was just teasing.

Back to Mum’s at about 7. In bed late.

The 26th brought more than Santa could ever deliver. I went and had a round of golf (Laughton - I shot a 93. Personal highlight was chipping in on the 17th to win the match). No photos sorry sports fans. Vaughan and I took the kids swimming in the afternoon. There was some late afternoon football on Mum’s back lawn. Everyone mostly avoided eating.

The 27th? Vaughan and I took the girls to the park to feed the ducks and have a swing. Beth took off for the middle part of the day to have a bit of time for Beth (like golf for girls I guess). Vaughan and family heading back to Palmerston North that afternoon. We were going to head back home that night but we heard that Steven Rangiwahia was back in town for 2 days only (from London). Steven always put us up when we went to London to go to Moorfields eye hospital with Molly. We managed to meet up with him that afternoon and get some of his chat. Great for him to see how well Molly is doing. He is a big softy (like I’m not).

Beth and I got the girls down at Mum’s and went out for a quiet drink in one of Hawera’s most exclusive Restaurants (I think there are 2). In retrospect expecting a quiet drink in the small town where you grew up is a little too much to ask, especially in New Zealand.

It turns out a guy I went to school with owns the place; my old employer arrived with a group of people and stopped by for a chat and a couple of random ‘are you Nick Armstrong’? You know what, it was actually quite nice and we still got our quiet drink together.

On the 28th we came home. It is always nice coming home.

29th - A bit of food shopping.

30th. Nada.

31st and we had Jamie and Helen with Dorothy coming for tea. Made bread, a salad, got out the Barbie, Beth went to the gym.

We had mussels, chicken, a pesto salad, ice cream. The girls went to sleep and then Dorothy gave us a scrabble lesson in vocabulary. It was looking rosy for the Man of the House until Helen read the rules. House of cards. Interestingly the rules are open to interpretation although we only had the entire paragraph read to us after the win was awarded to Dorothy. I point this out not because I am bitter more to display the generous nature of Helen who only did herself out a win. You are an example to us all.

Bread and Mussels

New years day was spectacular. A cooling South easterly breeze and a blazing 26 degrees. We packed a picnic and headed to the Paekakariki Beach. Arrived by 9.30 and beat the masses. A walk through the park. Got a good spot on the sand. A snack and a swim. Beautiful day. Home for the afternoon and I headed out on my bike for a wee ride.

Betty's birthday. Beth went out for a walk and I kid wrangled. We met briefly at the park for a coffee and to give the girls a swing. Beth headed to the Movies and Molly and I went home to bake a cake.

We made a carrot cake. I can safely say that this is a fail-safe way to get your kids to eat vegetables. Molly mixed the batter then licked the spatula not even pausing to avoid random pieces of orange goodness.

We had cake for desert with the girls. It was excellent. Great recipe off the net however 'down sweeten' the frosting and add the zest of one lemon.

http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Carrot-Cake-III/Detail.aspx

Now it is time for bed. Work in the Morning.

Love to you all. We miss you very much especially at this time of year.

Nick, Beth, Molly and Maddie xxxxx

We will upload a video of Maddie crawling as soon as work out how. Jamie….

Wonderful Waiheke

2007-12-04T23:01:00.000-08:00

So...this is Prue's Cottage on Waiheke Island - a little piece of paradise - just a thirty minute ferry ride from the hustle and bustle of Auckland. This wee cottage was situated just around the corner from where my cousin (Kate) and her partner (Damian) live with their new arrival: Lewis Barnaby Newland. Lewis is adorable. We felt very priviliged to be able to spend time with Kate and Damian at this very special time in Lewis's life, only a couple of weeks old! Considering the lack of sleep at this stage, Kate and Damian were looking very well and appeared to be taking it all in their stride. It was also lovely to be able to catch up with Moira (Kate's Mum) who was visiting for three weeks. We all caught up with each other every day, either over date and raspberry scones; coffee at their local cafe; bubbly to celebrate Lewis's arrival or; BBQ on their deck.

It was a very relaxing holiday and we didn't feel the need to 'do' anything, apart from taking short walks to the local beach; going for a dip; a stroll to the park to let the girls have a swing; or a visit to the local shops/cafe for some entertainment. We had a BBQ with Kate and Damian and invited some friends from Auckland (Guru, Sarah and their kids, Danny and Lauren) and watched the mayhem unfold as Beth unveiled some water pistols that she had chosen specifically for this event. Molly wasn't too sure how to pull the trigger on her pistol but Danny had it well under control and needless to say everyone got a little wet - even baby Lewis! Waiheke is a beautiful island: lots of lovely little beaches; sheltered bays; abundance of birdlife and exotic-looking plants; very peaceful and relaxing. There is plenty to do on the island in terms of outdoor pursuits but we were happy to just chill out for five days...maybe next time when the kids are older!

This photo was taken just prior to Waiheke at Vivien and Neil's place in Taranaki. As you can see, Maddy is definitely an Armstrong!

Kate and Damian with Lewis

Lewis at 2.5 weeks!

BBQ at Kate and Damian's place (Sarah, Moira, Beth, Lauren, Danny, Nick, Maddy and Molly)

Madeleine and Molly at Prue's Cottage

Nick and Molly at Little Oneroa Beach (5 mins walk from Prue's Cottage)

Molly doing what she likes best: eating ice-cream!

Some more beach shots!

...eating sand

Overseas

2007-10-21T23:46:00.000-07:00

"We did it!" (as Molly would say). It was quite an adventure but Madeleine and I managed to survive the flights and jetlag (just) and spent three fun-packed weeks in Scotland, reuniting with family in Shetland (first time all together in Shetland since 1979) and catching up with close friends in Fife and Edinburgh. It was lovely to see Mum and Dad again and great to spend a week with all my siblings, recounting old stories and watching old movies and taking walks around the house where we all used to play as kids. Mum and Dad have a fantastic new extension which is cosy and warm as well as being light and spacious too. Dad had a projector screen built into the ceiling so many a night was spent watching videos, rugby and football games and plenty of old photos.

MuckleBousta

The Johnstons reunited!

Jamie, Sorley and Gudrun (MuckleBousta in the far background)

Grandpa and Madeleine

Grandma with Madeleine

For those of you who don't already know about my talented little sister, Gudrun Durham, I would like to introduce you to her work: http://shetlandtrader.blogspot.com/

Gudrun is an amazing knitwear designer. While we were in Shetland, Gudrun created a beautiful shawl using an old Shetland lace pattern (sorry G but I can't find the photos - do you have them?) She also brought with her from California, a very cool little black dress (see below) and a little hat for Madeleine. I am so impressed with her natural talent - go sis!

Gudrun's little black dress

Madeleine's new hat (made by Gudrun)

Me and Little Sis (Gudrun)

After ten days with Mum and Dad in Shetland, Maddy and I flew to Aberdeen and spent a couple of nights with Sorley, Wendy and Ben, whom I thought had grown up so much since I last saw him! Madeleine was fascinated with Ella (dog) and the cats and spent much of her time craning her neck to watch them racing around in the house. Then we caught a train (Maddy's first time on a train) to Perth where my good friend, Sue and her wee boy, Reuben were waiting to pick us up. That night I had a wonderful evening catching up with all my good friends in Fife; Gill and Adam hosted an amazing evening at their place in Auchtermuchty (love what you've done to your house you guys!) and everyone ptiched in to put on a merry feast. Sheena: that cheesecake was to die for and I haven't enjoyed a prawn cocktail for so long! If it wasn't for Lindy and John leaving in good time to get back for the babysitter, I think I would have had a very sore head the next day! The next day everyone and their kids came over to Sue and James' place so we spent the day running around in the garden (well OK, not me), drinking copious cups of tea and eating biccies. Thanks so much Sue and James for having everyone to your place and for doing such a good job of looking after me! It was so good to see you all again and to catch up properly even if it was brief! Here are some photos!

Fifers dining in chez Le Pedens (spot Sheena and the cheescake!)
Gill and Adam with Maddy

The Girls!
(AKA Rosie, Lindy, Sue, Beth and Gill with wee Aoieffe)

Lindy with Madeleine and Rosie

Sue and Reuben saying goodbye at the Station

Our next whistlestop was Esther and Ally's place in Edinburgh - Casa Del Duncan - where I was more than well looked after and felt very at home. Eva is the same age as Molly (2 weeks younger) and reminded me a lot of Molly in many ways. Eva was a great wee helper when it came to feeding and changing Madeleine and generally keeping her well entertained! It was lovely to catch up with Sarah (an old pal from School) and Esther and Sarah and I even managed to go out for a meal one night as Ally ushered us out the door - thanks Ally! Can't believe I didn't take any photos of Esther or Ally!!!

Sarah with Eva and Madeleine

Having lunch with my good friend, Helen, in Edinburgh

While you were out...

2007-10-15T00:15:00.000-07:00

An Armstrong/Durham/Johnston blog needs updating so I pick me. The undisputed heavyweight of the extended Johnston clan wordsmiths.

As you all know I have been existing Star Wars style out here in the colonies (THAT’S FOR YOU SAGIE BOY – ask your Dad he’ll explain the reference. Gudrun / Helen you may need help with that one too). But I digress. In fact I had grand plans while Betty was away cavorting about that place but digressing was about all that got done while I was with child. It seemed that the days ebbed into night and before I knew it I was having another feast of a canned delicacy on bread or toast if I had time to cook the bread (one night I even had a pita bread with two fillings). Once I had muddled through the early evening and packed the wean off to bed with a satisfied/stupid grin I realised that I had not planned for my own entertainment / meals (clean clothing etc).

So let me break it down (insert a MC scratch sound here ¯). I have tried to bring as much colour to this as our Ginger friends however there may be the odd patch of tan or beige mixed in (but as boowah and kaawla sing “If you take a splash of yellow and you take a splash of blue and mix them both together what colour do you get…..”).

Week 1: The week of the Granny

We Armstrong’s are closely related to the whirling dervish that is Taz . Through generations of procreation the fizzy gene has been diluted, tripled rinsed and spun dry. However a small piece of the all action, perpetual motion characteristic has grimly hung in there. The personification of this characteristic however is anything but grim. It arrived like a bad knock knock joke at the door on the Sunday after Betty scampered off. Quickly the house was knock knocked into shape. I had done the basics but as I soon found out I am way outta my league on the whole ship shape thing.

Vivien, Viv, Mum, Granny rolled into PBay and the 3 weeks started to count down. Mum was everything you could ever hope when the cavalry are called in (nae sabres). At the door to see me off to work and awaiting me slippers in hand, pipe lit and paper ready.

Day 1:
Molly and mum got on famously after they had made that each others buttons gave the appropriate reactions. Molly, after relenting and accepting that Granny held the upper hand in the ‘you must eat your breakfast, lunch etc’ stakes held on to the only form of resistance available to her. Toileting. Dourly she held on and held out and refused to ‘go’ even when deposited on the loo on every 15 minutes. She made her wee protest as often as her bladder would allow sprinkling decent around the lounge/kitchen/bedrooms. It was close to pistols at dusk but I arrived home in the nick of time. I dashed through the door (put on my slippers, lit my pipe and read the business section) and interceded. Much like the US in Iraq or the British in Northern Island progress was slow and beset by obstacles.

Day 2:
Peace agreement brokered and I again set of to the mines. You could say the rest is history. It was one thing after another.
Day 3:
Crayfish and scallops for dinner. The rest of the day I forget. Oh Granny and Molly went swimming. Maybe that is where the seafood came from.
Day 4:
Must have been the swimming as Day 4 proved to be the day where the two strong willed ladies in the house started to enjoy themselves. Molly broke her toileting fast and Mum just continued to be Granny.
Day 5:

An adventure to three medical appointments in 12 hours. All in different parts of the greater Wellington area. Granny was chief of entertainment and navigation, Molly was the client, I was a sea of calm under that stressed exterior. Admittedly this is one of the harder days for everyone even under the best conditions. Conditions were ideal so off we set. 7 hours, 4 coffees, 2 subways, 4 muffins, an apple juice, 2 litres of water, 2 bananas, 5 crackers with cream cheese, 2 accidents (no vehicles involved) and 6 albums of children’s music we arrived back at PBay. Molly asleep by 6.15 and lights out by 8.

Week 2 – Where are we going? Tall Mountain! Granny and Molly disappeared to Taranaki on Saturday am so I could paint the bathroom. Naturally I thought that this was an easily achievable task in the day and set out to prove it. Naturally I know nothing of painting and decorating other than where to buy paints and brushes so come Sunday morning when I was scheduled to head to Hawera to pick up Molly I was still touching up and washing brushes (actually I am still touching up some bits and pieces). Still the bathroom is now Chocoletto with a trim of white and I have a very happy wee wifey. In my defence a friend had a baby on the Saturday so I had whiskey to drink with the new Dad. Speaking of whiskey the ‘Linkwood’ is a nice drop Laughton.

Taranaki was grand. Weather was atrocious. Granddad and Trish were sick with the flu. Molly picked it up. Guests dropped in unexpectedly and Molly and I were bunking together. However I did get a whole day off when Mum took charge (she is a dab hand now) and played 9 holes of golf with Dad then headed up to New Plymouth to spend the night with some friends. One of the seldom acknowledged benefits of bad weather is that you are forced to stay in doors and actually catch up with folk. Visiting is a great tool to get out and about, some home baking and seek out those people that you never really do as you are at the park/beach/pool etc.

The undoubted highlight for Molly was feeding a lamb. The first thing she asked it (of course) was ‘Where’s Mary little lamb?’

I also got a haircut.

Week 3 – Nanny (our Nanny has better jewellery)
The third week was when I had committed to getting back to work. Mum was unavailable for a couple of these days so we tracked down a Nanny through some friends of ours. Our friends are pretty level headed so when they recommend this Nanny we jumped at the chance to meet her and let Molly meet her etc etc. Even after Meeting Ashleigh I was pretty apprehensive. Just an overprotective father I guess but let’s dace it how much can you trust a 22 year old with your little one? In this instance, tonnes. Ashleigh and Molly hit it off. Every night I came home to a happy, engaged, feed, etc etc Molly and every night Molly slept from 6.30 until at least 7. This is really out of character. One morning I woke her up as it was 8.20 and I had to be gone in 40 minutes and Molly needed dressed and feed. This could not have worked out better. It still took me 2 days to fully relax though.

There is something to be said for working off site. No annoying conversations breaking out all around you. No annoying phones ringing and ringing and ringing. You know no one is going to pop by to see you to discuss something and side track you for hours on end. But most excellently is that the café that is situated just alongside the library where you are working. By day 3 they figure out that you are the ‘short black and a small jug of hot water on the side’ guy. No ordering just an acknowledgement that you have arrived and they get it to you asap. Certainly makes you feel like a big shot.

Abba’s Arrival - Beth got back on time and on budget 6th of October. Molly and I were waiting with baited breath at Wellington Airport. There were tears and a ‘who the hell is this guy with the rug on his face’ semi-adoring look from Maddie for me. Molly dinnae want to let go of her Mama. Fair enough. I just had to get in line. Home, 3 loads of washing, dinner…(oh the glamour)

ps – Beth is not allowed to go anywhere without me for any longer than a week from now on.
pps – I am over the rugby loss now so it is safe to call…..

Kate's baby shower

2007-08-24T21:16:00.000-07:00

I know, I know...it's been too long since my last post, but I do have excuses: my kids, housework; sleeping; eating; entertaining...

So...last month we were invited to Kate's (my cousin and only other relative living in NZ apart from my wee brother and his wife) baby shower. These baby showers are still quite novel to me, only been to one other and that was here in NZ too. I'm always amazed by peoples' generosity as the recipient receives a huge array of baby gifts and not cheap ones either! It seems that this is the 'norm' over here and perhaps in America too? I must say it's a good way to get all set up for your firstborn. Kate's baby shower was lots of fun and it was great to meet more of Damian's family who are now our extended family too! Lots of kids running around and Damian's Mum (Sue) and his sister (Lisa) did an amazing job of serving up lots of delicious treats to keep us all going. Kate was looking radiant, still her trim self but with a beautiful bump! We all played a guessing game as to how big she was around her waist/bump. We were all given a piece of tape and asked to cut it to the appropriate size (without measuring her of course) and bizarrely, my measurement was the closest! You should be able to see my name on the tape around Kate's waist.

The girls...

Isabella helps Kate get started on the unwrapping!

Lisa (Damian's sister), Steve (Damian's brother), Sue (Damian's Mum), Helen and Kate

The night before we had Kate and Damian over for homemade pizza (a la Nick) and Jamie and Helen joined us too. It was great to be able to catch up with everyone without trying to shout over the noise of the kids and also be able to start and finish a conversation properly. It's a shame Kate and Damian live in Auckland as we would see them much more often if they were in Wellington (nudge, nudge Kate!) Maybe they'll think about a move down here when they return from Scotland!

Most folk who read this blog will know that I'm due to return to Scotland quite shortly, in three weeks in fact. It's going to be a big family reunion in Shetland...can't wait. I will be flying with Madeleine (Nick and Molly will stay here) to LA and Gudrun will be joining us on the second leg of the flight to Frankfurt and then onto Edinburgh. I think Gudrun and I will have no problem finding something to talk about whilst we're up in the air and Madeleine will no doubt have some tricks up her sleeve too. She has now sprouted another tooth (top right) and it has really changed the look of her face again. She and Molly play splashing contests in the bath now so Nick and I just stand back, outside of the door and let them get on with it.

Beth (sporting new short haircut) and Madeleine

Molly is well and enjoying kindergarten. She may start morning kindy by the end of the year but all depends on how things go over the next couple of months. I'm thinking more and more about a part-time job perhaps at Xmas if Madeleine can start in the local creche. I don't want to go full-time and I don't want Madeleine to go into care before she's one but I think I need to do something else soon for my own sanity!

First Tooth

2007-07-26T00:35:00.000-07:00

OK, not a lot has happened since our last post; however, Madeleine has cut her first tooth so we thought that on its own was worthy of being published on the blog. She was very grizzly and we wondered if she had a virus as her temperature went up and down and she was pretty upset to say the least. All was revealed approximately three days later when a wee white bump protruded from her bottom gum and she wouldn't let anyone go anywhere near it! So, it was an extremely difficult task getting a photo, never mind getting a look in her mouth.

We have been experiencing unbelieveably mild weather of late, 15C again today and hardly any wind. I had short sleeves on today walking the girls to Kindergarten. Our tulips are surfacing in their pots outside the house and some of our bushes (unidentified) are flowering! It is wonderful not to have the fire on all day and worrying if the girls are warm enough during the night. It could get very cold again so, just to be on the safe side, we have ordered and had delivered another load of wood (yes Dad, we got through that gigantic load of wood that you so carefully and beautifully stacked for us in March!). Hopefully this will see us through to Spring at least!

So...what other news? Nick has started working part-time (four days a week) and is now off on Wednesdays which will be a big help for me. The idea is to give Molly some one-on-one time and to give Mummy some time off! We are looking at this being a temporary adjustment, probably until Molly starts morning Kindy when she will be going five full mornings a week. Nick is most happy to be working shorter hours. Of course, this means less money but at the moment we can live with that. Some more photos of the girls. Madeleine can now sit unaided and grabs anything within arms length. She loves her food and has her Mum cooking for her around the clock.

Sitting up on my own

Maddy's first music lesson

Show us your tooth!

2007-07-09T02:13:00.000-07:00

Apparently not my God but it took me another chapter to find it out. I did wonder how David knew of my God but we can't go on together with suspicious minds. The good book (no not The Good Book) is Acacia, the latest offering from David. We are both engrosed in it and it is most likely that all the chores will be overlooked until one of us finishes. Luckily M&M have developed this high pitch squeal so they manage to get our attention for eating, bathing etc. What you can't see in this picture is how the foot of the bed is slightly higher than the head. This is due to the weightly literature. Loving your work David. It is always good to go to Durham on your holidays.

New here...

2007-06-29T22:46:00.000-07:00

We have finally made it as bloggers! OK Sorley, no pressure but you really do need to get a blog too.

So, to start off our blog, we thought we would provide you with some background on the Pukeko:

"They are birds that are full of character and can provide a lot of amusement for the observer. The white undertail is flirted cheekily with every movement and their high querulous notes run the whole gamut of expression, from curiosity to interrogation to scolding. The naturalist Guthrie Smith maintained that they make great pets and that every country family should rear them."

Another anecdote found on the Web:

"I have come to the conclusion that Pukeko are suicidal. I so often see them on the side of the road, dithering, darting backwards and forwards, looking for an opportunity to cross, only to come back later to see them squashed on the road. They seem to have no road sense at all. However, the ornithologist WRB Oliver had other ideas when he said, “The Pukeko is a bold and fearless bird. It has learned that trains and motorcars are harmless and takes no notice of them.”

There is of course a whole lot more to these birds and if you're really interested, go to this website where you can learn more about our 'clever' pukeko bird: http://www.nzbirds.com/birds/pukeko.html

So...onto some local news from the Armstrongs in Pukerua Bay. Well, we have officially gone wireless and we are wondering why we didn't do this a long time ago: it is so much easier. Now we can tap away to our hearts' content from anywhere in the house. We hope we will become regular bloggers and be in contact with you all more often.

OK, so now Nick wants to use the PC. I have added a couple of photos of the weans for those of you who haven't seen them in a while. Back soon!

Our wee gloved fairy in the sunlight!

Madeleine at six months but thinks she's actually nine months and already wearing size 1 year-old trousers!

and...Santa's little helper!